The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent–Narcissist Trap by Ross Rosenberg explains why empathetic, giving people (codependents) are often drawn to selfish, controlling partners (emotional manipulators or narcissists). What starts as an intense, magnetic connection soon turns into a painful cycle of hope and disappointment. Through clear examples and psychological insight, Rosenberg reveals the roots of this attraction and offers guidance on breaking free from toxic relationship patterns to find healthy, balanced love.